Do things what you want to do. Your personal diary is only for you. It completely belongs to you. It is actually your customized friend. Your diary is a judgement free zone for you. Try to make yourself happier here and feel tension free. You don’t need to show it to others because you don’t need appreciation from them. You are totally free not to give explanations to others. Be yourself, be happy!

PRECAUTION :

  • People are generally curious !!!

Remember one thing always! Your personal diary is your “Chamber of Secrets”, so you should be very careful in keeping it really “personal”. It is up to you how you keep it safe  because you know your family, siblings, friends, neighbors, classmates,  colleagues or servants better than anyone else. Stay safe buddy!!!

  • Never, ever write down about your ” Confessions”; Otherwise be ready to become a “lifetime victim”.

GET SET GO !

Now we are getting started :

  • First of all make your diary/journal your best companion and give it a sweet, heart touching name. Such as ….. if you are a foodie person than you can call your diary “my dear doughnut, dear pink-tea, my lovely tutti-fruity, my chubby marshmallow, cool choc-bar, my sweet peanut pick, my choco chip” etc. If you are a seasons lover like me than you can name it like ” dear misty, dear rainy, my cloudy, dear sunshine, dear snow bell ” etc. Botanical and Disney world are also there. You can give it common name of  people or your favorite celebrities or…….. whatever you like, my dear friends; I am here to give you some ideas, just ideas!!! My main purpose is to make you happy and …… happy.
  • Instead of writing directly, it would be better to decorate it beautifully and artistically so that your personal taste reflect and believe me, it results in a great pleasure whenever you come in contact with your diary. So, feel free to add some creative element to it.
  • Though it is a fun-based activity but you should take your ” best friend” seriously. Share your worries, problems, depression, tensions and anxiety anytime frequently because after all ” Friends are for sharing”. But element of ” being secret” should never, ever be ignored.

IDEAS :

Now we proceed further. Here are some interesting ideas to make your diary/ journal more friendly and personal.

  • Write about yourself. It should be short, focused and meaningful about your overall personality. This act will make you understand about your basic personality traits very well. It is in fact a first step to know and analyze   yourself. Next time or after some time you will be able to introduce yourself to others in a much better way.
  • As I always say, “Family comes first” so being a family oriented person, I suggest you to make a “Birthday Bash” and note down your loving family members birthdays. You can also write down your friends, cousins, relatives or colleagues birthdays to avoid embarrassment of having poor memory. So, “Birthdays” should be essential and easier way to remember your loved ones special day and make them wish on time.
  • Make a list of things or tasks to do in a certain time period and go through it on daily basis.
  • Make a list of your favorite things and activities you enjoy to do. It will make you really exited all the time.
  • Travel plans are also full of fun and fantasy. Make a travel bucket and feel yourself adventurer.
  • Write about your goals and dreams. Your personal diary is your imaginary friend and feel free to tell her about your future plans and the way you want to achieve it.
  • Reading corner is also very influential. Write down your personal opinions, reviews, lessons or moral you get after reading a book  and also note down your favorite dialogues and quotes. This process will lead you towards better vision of life and your surrounding.
  • “Yummy for my tummy” makes me always happier than anything else. Share your experience of having something “yumelicious” through words or give a tribute through art or sketch/drawing or other medium; it sounds delicious.
  • Movies are also there that boost your imagination and improve your analytical and expressive skills in your writings.
  • Set a theme, weekly or monthly, as per your choice and time.
  •  Share your past memory with your diary. It can be funny or sad that is up to you.
  • You can write your favorite recipe with great love and appetite.
  • Shopaholic ??? yup ! write down about your shopping ” dreams”.
  • Quotes, motivational or funny is a must for your mood swings 😉
  • “Prayers” should be there for your psychologically balanced life at least, though we need prayers in each and every aspect of life.
  • ” Gratitude” must be there friends!!! Tell yourself and your diary that how much grateful you are being lucky and how much countless blessings you have in your life.

Dear GOD ! You are GREAT!!!